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Do You Have Approach Anxiety? Read This

By: Chris Benjamin

Most men have fears - some don't like spiders, others don't like heights, and still others fear going bald or getting a pot belly. These are not things that men naturally lay out on the table and discuss. One very common fear among men, though, that should be discussed, is the fear of approaching women.

Approach anxiety can be overcome, though, with a little know-how and a lot of practice. The first thing you need to do is start practicing - religiously. Approach women you are NOT attracted to which may make the stakes smaller for you. The more you practice, the more confident you will become and the more attractive that makes you to women.

So - every time you see a woman that you are even mildly attracted to - go talk to her. Do it before you can convince yourself otherwise. Using techniques like Cocky Comedy will also help you overcome your approach anxiety.

David Deangelo of Double Your Dating developed the Cocky Comedy program to help men create attraction and fan the flames with a woman. Cocky Comedy seems very natural, and after getting used to it, it can easily become part of your personality. With most "naturals" - it is already. The boiled down version of Cocky Funny is this - you use words to say that she is NOT all that - but your body language tells a different story.

A very simple method to use is busting her balls verbally - making fun of her clothing, her stature, how she parks or what have you, but then show brief affection to her with your body language, but holding a door open for her, touching her on the arm, etc.

What this does for a woman is it keeps her just a little bit confused - which is a good thing. When a woman knows that you are attracted to her - it gives her the upper hand, and also loses much of the interest for her. On the other hand, if you can keep her guessing, that will spark attraction for her and keep her interested in you.

The long term effects of this, on a man, are that the more you practice and get comfortable approaching women, you will start to see that women are very similar in their attraction preferences. Looks don't necessarily matter to women, it is the way you make her FEEL that matters to her. You will also develop the ability to disarm people, total strangers, using Cocky Comedy, and will develop a confidence and an aura that women will find irresistible.

So - practice approaching women and using Cocky Comedy to engage them. Soon, you will find that you are becoming more and more successful in meeting the kind of woman you want to date, losing your own fears and anxiety and showing her that you are a calm, cool and confident man.

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What this does for a woman is it keeps her just a little bit confused - which is a good thing. When a woman knows that you are attracted to her - it gives her the upper hand, and also loses much of the interest for her. On the other hand, if you can keep her guessing, that will spark attraction for her and keep her interested in you.

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